I will never understand why relationships have to be so damn complicated.
It’s you and I, we like each other, we want to spend some time together and give it a try.
Done! Easy! Right?
Hell no! No pain, no gain. In this case, no game.
When you’re approaching somebody, you need to weigh every single word and look after any action you take. You need to play that game.
Should I ask for their number? What should I say and how often should I text? Will they think I’m going too fast and feel some pressure? And if I don’t, will they feel I don’t care?
Don’t spend too much time overthinking it because, whatever you do, it’s always gonna turn wrong.
And instead of simply being honest, we’ll lose the beauty of seeing each other’s shy expressions, smiling for that funny thought, looking down when recalling that hurtful story, only because we’ll always focus on a game we never know how to play right.
So next time you like somebody and you want to give this thing a try, just keep it cool and safe: go for “Text me…maybe.”
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